Living With Insomnia
Insomnia can cause difficulty in falling asleep or can wake you up in the middle of the night. Here are a few tips to deal with these issues and improve your condition.
A. What to do when you have difficulty falling asleep
1. Maintain a sleep diary
A sleep diary can pinpoint day and nighttime habits that may contribute to your problems at night. Your sleep diary should include:
- What time you went to bed and woke up.
- Total sleep hours and perceived quality of your sleep.
- A record of time you spent awake and what you did ( for example: got up, had a glass of milk, and meditate).
- Type and amount of food, liquids, caffeine, or alcohol you consumed before bed, and time of consumption.
- Your feelings and moods before bed (happiness, sadness, stress and anxiety).
- Any drugs or medications taken including dose and time of consumption.
2. Create a better sleep environment
A quiet, comfortable sleep environment and a relaxing bedtime routine can make a big difference in improving the quality of your sleep.
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Make sure your bedroom is quiet, dark, and cool and also invest in proper mattress, foam toppers, and pillows.
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Try using a sound machine or earplugs to mask outside noise and use blackout curtains or an eye mask to block out light.
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Keep your window open for proper ventilation and to keep the room cool
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Stick to a regular sleep schedule such as going to bed and getting up at the same time every day, including weekends.
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Turn off all screens at least an hour before bed as electronic devices emit a blue light that disrupts your body’s production of melatonin and combats sleepiness.
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Avoid stimulating activity and stressful situations before bedtime such as checking messages on social media, discussions or arguments, or catching up on work.
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Avoid naps during the day as it can make it more difficult to sleep at night. However, power naps of 30 minutes when tired, especially in the afternoon, can be of great help.
3. Avoid certain things before going to bed
These include:
4. Say NO to negative thoughts and worries
The more trouble you have with sleep, the more it starts to invade your thoughts. These self-destructing thoughts can further fuel insomnia. For example, instead of thinking "I’m never going to be able to sleep well. It’s out of my control, "think of a self promoting comeback like, "insomnia can be cured and if I stop worrying so much and focus on positive solutions, I can beat it."
5. Make your bed your buddy
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Use the bedroom only for sleeping (and sex) but not for work, watch TV or scroll through your phone at night.
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Do not hang wall clocks in the bedroom as watching the time tick as you count sheep in bed can further make you anxious about getting tired the next day, adding fuel to your worries.
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Instead of tossing and turning in bed, leave the bedroom, and do something relaxing like taking a stroll on your balcony or drinking a cup of herbal tea.
B) What to do if you wake up in the middle of the night
Many people with insomnia are able to fall asleep at bedtime, but then wake up in the middle of the night. And once they wake up, they find it difficult to go back to sleep, often lying awake for hours. If this is your problem, then here are a few tips that can help you!
1. Do not stress too much
As stressing over not being able to fall asleep at night can further activate your brain and elevate stress levels making you stay awake at night. Instead, taking deep breaths or closing your eyes and concentrating on your breathing can help to ease stress and induce sleep. Ways to do abdominal breathing:
2. Try relaxation techniques
If you find it hard to fall back to sleep, try a relaxation technique such as visualization or meditation on your bed. This can help you to rejuvenate your mind and body and may help you sleep. Steps for mindfulness meditation:
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Sit or lie quietly
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Focus on your natural breathing
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Allow thoughts and emotions to come and go without judgment
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As you do so, always focus on your breath and body
3. Say yes to simple exercises
Simple exercises such as rubbing your ears or rolling your eyes can help promote calmness and relaxation, thereby helping you to sleep better.
4. Get out of your bedroom
If you have been lying on your bed for more than 30 minutes, then get out of your bedroom and try reading a book or drinking herbal teas. Do not watch TV or check your phone.
5. Postpone your worries for the next day
Whether you feel anxious about something or have an idea for your presentation, then make a note of it on paper and go back to sleep. Leave your ideas or worries for the next day and get a good night’s sleep.