What is six pocket syndrome? Experts explain this growing behavior among kids today

Written by: Deepa Reviewed by: Dr. Swati Mishra 17 October 2025

What is Six Pocket Syndrome?

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Why is it in the News?

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How it Happens?

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The Psychology Behind It

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Signs of Six Pocket Syndrome

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Expert's Advice

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Final Takeaway

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What is six pocket syndrome? Experts explain this growing behavior among kids today