Social anxiety holding you back? These simple tips can help you

             Written by: Ehsan Siddiqui

 16 July 2025

Ever felt heavy in your chest and struggling to speak in social settings like office meetings or parties? You are not alone; social anxiety is more common than you realize. These simple tips can help you regain control.

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Negative thinking fuels social anxiety and contributes to a major misinterpretation of people and events. In such situations, evaluate how realistic the scenarios in your head are, and try to think positively. 

Fight Negative Thoughts

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Every person can have different triggers for anxiety. Figure out the situations that make you uncomfortable. Pinpointing what, when, and why brings you anxiety can help you manage it.

Identify Your Triggers

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For people who get anxious while speaking in public, finding ways to practice public speaking can be helpful. You can start by talking in a small friends group or speaking in front of a mirror to imitate the spotlight effect.

Practice Speaking in Public

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When feeling anxious, breathing is often the first thing to get disrupted. In such a situation, take a moment to focus on your breath, try 4-7-8 method, inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 7 and slowly exhale for 8.

Practice Controlled Breathing

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Anxiety can make us hyper-focused on ourselves. Instead of focusing on what is going on in your head, pay attention to what is happening around you. This can minimize feelings of self-consciousness and social anxiety.

Shift Your Focus

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