Dos & don’ts when someone you love has postpartum depression

Written by: Sneha Jajoo Reviewed by: Dr. Swati Mishra 14 Jan 2026

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Do: Learn the Signs

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Do: Listen Without Judgement

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Do: Offer Practical Help

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Do: Encourage Rest & Sleep

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Don’t: Minimize Their Experience

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Don’t: Give Unsolicited “Solutions”

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Talk To An Expert Now!

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